Word of the Week: Spinnefeind
Enlarge image (© www.colourbox.com) If you have a spinnefeind relationship with someone, the other person may be toxic and scare you away. But even though though this German word translates to "spider-inimical", it describes a relationship with someone who has two legs and not eight!
The word Spinne means "spider" and Feind means "enemy" - or, in this case, it is used as "inimical". Despite what it sounds like, this term does not refer to the hairy little buggers that crawl up your walls at night and hide in the corners of your house - even though you might consider them your enemies. Instead, this word is an adjective - and it describes the relationship you have with an enemy - someone that you cannot stand to be around and whose intentions toward you are not good. In a spinnefeind relationship, your enemy wants the worst for you (and you want the worse for him or her). Adding the word Spinne to the word Feind ("inimical") creates an adjective that emphasizes just how bad that relationship is.
In German, you might say, Sie waren einander spinnefeind. ("They were spinnefeind towards one another.")
(© Nicole Glass)
Just like a spider might cause you to run in the other direction, seeing your someone with whom you have a spinnefeind relationship could cause you to walk the other way. But it may be better to confront your fears than to run from them. You may realize that they're not as bad as they may seem, and that they look scarier than they truly are.
By Nicole Glass, Editor of The Week in Germany